If a situation repeatedly brings you grief, stop and examine it. See exactly what's troubling. And look for solutions.
If a situation that genuinely needs your attention, where you need to correct your path, goes unattended, it becomes a lot more difficult to solve later on when it's become more complex, and when you're so deeply buried in it, you can't see clear your way out.
Additionally, every choice in life you make, a path you take, opens up other possibilities and closes down others. When you're not handling the challenges you genuinely need to handle, you close off the path of your higher development--for the moment at least.
So, stop and handle things that trouble you as a way to guarantee freedom and joy going forward. And build the sense of power that you can indeed handle your challenges. It's in your hands and you can do it, build a life that suits you, gives you joy and satisfaction.