For example, the other day I had a young client who was having "trouble" with her mom.
From the psychic perspective, this was not a problem, it was a new phase she was entering that included sculpting her own identity, giving shape to her life, her dreams, values and priorities. It was simple: she had to know what she wanted and what was important to her and say yes and no to her mom--define her own identity, define herself as a person, a person separate from her mom.
This was not a problem; this was simply growth. Yet, if this young woman did not do this promptly, it would become a problem, piling upon it other related problems over the passing years.
And other things in life are very similar, from what I see in readings, very easy to handle, if you only knew the real situation, and if only our society had a different outlook on human evolution--and really, that's most of it, evolution. We are evolving, all the time. Most things aren't actual problems, but simply some new thing we are ready to learn next. And if we approach it in this way, we save ourselves a lot of grief, and can get on with enjoying our life.