change is unfoldment into greater divinity
Getting Answers from a Psychic
In giving psychic readings I have found that some of the questions my clients have and the challenges they face don't have the answers they want or expect. There are answers, just not the ones they were hoping for. Here I talk about some of those situations.
Will This or That Happen?
Once in a while clients have this type of a question:
The answer to all of these is: maybe.
The nature of reality is that we as humans were created with free will. We get to choose. If you want to get back with your boyfriend, if you make some effort, maybe make some changes, then you probably will get together with him.
Will your husband get work? If he looks, and has the intention to get work, then he mostly likely will.
Will you get that job? Depending on your intention, and some other energetic factors, perhaps.
We have free will. At any moment we can change our minds. Other people can change their minds, and off you go in a different direction.
Periodically soul-level intentions are at play, so the likelihood of certain things happening is higher, but even that, most of the time, can be changed.
So, really, there is no reason to call a psychic just to get a yes or no on that type of question.
However! If you are open, receptive, willing to grow in consciousness, a psychic, or me, in this instance, can provide a new context in which you can understand your situation. In having a new understanding -- a shift in consciousness -- you can affect the situation in a different way. You may even open up to new directions that are far better for you than the ones you had been hoping for.
The boyfriend situation can turn into greater understanding about your dynamic, and if you are willing to see that, you can learn and grow and go back to create a great relationship.
The work situation can expand into a realization of your true potential and your heart desire where you suddenly feel the power of your soul wanting to actualize soul truth.
If you are open to this type of expansion and growth and are willing to consider accepting more fulfillment, joy, love, and peace in your life, then a psychic reading with me can assist in moving you in that direction, and I would then encourage you to get a reading from me.
You Are Really Upset & Looking for Answers
If you are in a highly emotional state, I would recommend that you wait on receiving a reading.
A psychic reading can offer deep solutions, but you have to be able to hear them. In a highly agitated state, most people have a hard time listening. At those times, what people most want is to feel better. A psychotherapist may be better able to help at those times.
My recommendation is to wait until you are calmer and able to receive deeper answers and are in a position to implement changes.
Having said that, clients have come in very upset and have received from me the comfort and support they needed. At those times, I have mostly just listened to them, rather than force a comprehensive reading.
These are general guidelines, however, when two people are brought together, regardless of how the session goes, everyone benefits in some way, though not necessarily as expected -- if they are willing and open to see the benefit.
Be Willing to Change
You may be in a difficult situation, but to change that situation, you have to be willing to change. If you are not willing to change, nothing will happen, until you are willing.
I would suggest that the minute you clearly see a challenge, ask yourself as to what you are doing to create this? And say to yourself: "I am wiling to change." All kinds of doors open, and solutions appear, when you say that and are willing.
In a psychic reading, being receptive to the possibility that something in you needs to change, that you need to see something differently, is the prerequisite to the situation changing.
Soul Evolution & Suffering
There are times when no one can offer an answer that will end the suffering, not a psychic reader, not a psychotherapist. The person is undergoing a major transformation. What he/she has to go through is necessary for soul growth.
Comfort can be obtained temporarily. Comfort from understanding what is going on exactly can be had, but the fact remains, the person has to go through the process to grow.
In those situations, the person tends to look for A solution, something that will answer the whole thing and be done with it. But there is no such thing. And I am so sorry to say that. I have gone through these phases in my life, and the only way to move through them is to be willing to change, willing to accept this process of deep, extensive and powerful transformation.
At those times I can clarify for you your situation, set up a different context for viewing it, describe many aspects of it -- which all helps -- but I can't take the lessons away, I can't take the suffering away, can't take away your process, the lessons you need to learn, though you will feel better knowing what is going on. You will feel better being understood.
I want to underscore the importance of this kind of process.This profound transformation is a privileged state! The grace of All That Is believes in you so much, values you so much as to be investing time in you to shape you into a vehicle for the expression of truth and light, to bring you greater freedom and happiness. If you accept this, you will move through this process more easily and quickly.
It's Easier Than You Think
Sometimes clients think their situation is hard to change when that is not at all the case.
The important thing is to be willing to take action, that action also includes being willing to see things differently, being willing to change. Even a little action will begin to produce big results. That's how energy works and how the grace of All That Is works. You express your willingness, and God comes and meets you more than half way. You just have to be willing to take some action.
It's All About Growth and Evolution
All of existence (on any level of reality), is about growth, unfoldment, evolution. Whatever challenges you face, they are about this expansion into greater being, expansion into soul truth, soul potential, soul power. No one can escape this process. To understand and accept that everything is always evolving is to step into the truth of how things are thereby make the journey easier and fun.