Often in psychic reading sessions I see young women (usually), who are interested in a man who is not interested in them. They want to know why he isn't interested in them. Why doesn't he do this? Why doesn't he do that? What does he mean by this? When he does that or this or the other, what does it mean?
Women spend a huge amount of time, it appears, wondering why the man they're interested in is not behaving the way they want them to.
The answer to that is simple: he just isn't and there is nothing you can do about it. Accept it.
If he tells you he's not interested. If he's not calling. If he's skirting the issue, saying he wants to be friends . . .
And you keep pushing!
He's already told you.
He's not interested.
Respect his wishes.
You would not want a guy to force you into a relationship with him. You would not want to be hassled with why you didn't call him, why you didn't do this or that, corned to explain your every word, every action -- so don't do that to him.
Whatever he says, hear it. Honor it. Respect it. And behave accordingly.
It will make life easier for you and for him.
Valentine's day is coming and I am offering psychic readings to couples at special rates.
You can come to see me with anyone that's important in your life. This could be a romantic partner, a child, a sibling, mother, father, or friend.
The psychic reading will give you more understanding of each other, the way each of you operate in the world. It will also identify childhood tendencies that present themselves in the relationship and cause discord.
The greatest value of a couple's psychic reading is that it will clarify the mysterious elements in the relationship--why certain things are the way they are, why they persist, and why it's been difficult to bring about changes.
Take advantage of this special offer. Email or call to set up an appointment.
A psychic reading is a great gift to give to friends and family and to yourself!
This year I have very special rates. Purchase in Shop of Inspirations.
For family and friends in town, purchase In-person Sessions. For those out of town, purchase Phone/Skype Sessions.
And don't forget couples. Give a gift certificate for a couple's reading to your favorite couple, or use it yourself for a reading with your mom, dad, sibling, or friend.
A gift of a psychic reading is always a good idea regardless if the person is facing challenges or looking for an expanded, inspiring understanding of their life.
In Shop of Inspiration you can choose gift certificates for in-person sessions as well as sessions by phone or Skype. Couples Psychic readings are available also. The couple would need to come to the office.
In-person or phone/Skype sessions are equally excellent.
Here are two powerful guided meditations from the Monroe Institute. They utilize Hemi-Sync technology.
Sometimes life will bring our way a person we find irresistible. Sometimes life will bring our way circumstances/opportunities we find irresistible.
It's hard to walk away from people and circumstances that are tantalizing. They have the quality of irresistible seduction.
Yet, if the person or the circumstance comes with undeniable: abuse, lies, stress, fear . . . it's best to walk on by.
To accept the person or the circumstance thinking you'll "deal" with the challenging aspects, is to consciously accept walking into darkness.
Don't do it!
In your effort to fight the "darkness," elevate the person or the situation to a higher state, you will become who they are, you will sink to their level of darkness.
Keep your Light!
Without your Light, no person matters, no circumstance fulfills. After a time, in those situations, you will find yourself beaten down, barely escaping with your life, and it will be long, hard years ahead climbing back to the Light you so easily let go of in the presence of these glitzy things.
Nothing is worth losing your Light for, your Self, your Soul. You lose that, you have nothing.
Keep the Light!! In peace, gratitude, knowing you are blessed. Be grateful for being so blessed!
I give psychic readings to couples. In a couple's reading both people come in together. Given the energies in their aura, I can see how they think about each other and what childhood energies are still active.
What I wanted to write about today is what is common with couple's: each person in the relationship is waiting for the other to do something to make the relationship better. Meanwhile, both people are focused on what they perceive as the flaws in the other person, and the general unsatisfactoriness of the relationship.
When I first saw these attitudes in a reading, I was appalled; there was simply no way to make things better with those postures. It's a situation where you beat something up to make it better. There is no way this can work.
The answers that arose in readings is to make the decision to actively bring into the relationship love, joy, fun, play, creativity, harmony, goodness, respect, gratitude, appreciation, etc. To make it a responsibility to bring to the relationship the highest vibration and to continually have the intention that your own vibration is increasing, therefore you have the potential to bring into the relationship ever-greater goodness, joy, light . . .
In giving psychic readings I have automatically defaulted to holding each person in the highest regard--I see the soul, and when you see the soul there is nothing but the highest respect, highest regard; I am always inclined to bow to the light of each being.
In relationship I see that's what has to be the foundation, the bowing to the light, the divinity of the person.
This does not mean that "problems" and challenges do not exist on the human level, it just means you approach handling them differently. You can choose to be creative with whatever challenges you are facing, coming to them with the knowledge that all challenges are there to expand consciousness; they are meant to be solved and, therefore, can be solved. So there is no reason for fear. Coming to the challenges with good will and the intention to grow to higher consciousness through this vehicle of this challenge, you are pretty much assured of success.
If you make it a focus to bring all the joy, goodness, light, love, kindness . . . to the relationship, you will be amazed how quickly your relationship will start to feel like the one you wanted--but expected the other person to create.
At the core of this is you yourself accepting a wonderful relationship, believing in yourself that you can, indeed, experience this much joy and happiness in a relationship. So saying yes to this first, is the beginning.
And saying yes to this joy and light is saying yes to All That Is/God. And when we do that, we are at One. And that's what all of us really want because it is there we find peace and joy that is of the permanent peace and joy of our Creator and truly fulfills.
I was reading The Early Class Sessions, Book 3--(these are sessions from Jane Robert's ESP class in 1971), and came across THE best description about how to work with feelings. Below is a direct quote, but with my paragraphing.
Seth speaking: ". . . Nowhere did I tell you to hide or ignore your feelings or pretend that something did not annoy you when it did. Admit your feelings to yourself. Openly be aware of them. If they are unpleasant feelings then be aware of them as you would be aware of black clouds that pass your window. Do not pretend they do not exist, or you will run into trouble. But when you shove one black cloud against another black cloud you can have one hell of a storm so you do not have to retaliate, therefore.
Simply be aware of your feelings, then try to understand the reality of the person involved. Why do they behave in such and such a manner?
Once you have accepted your feelings then refuse to let the balance of your mind be upset by such disturbances even though you recognize them. Send, then, thoughts of peace towards the person involved, that their problems may be solved. This allows you freedom to admit your own feelings but puts you in control." Page 113.
This is such an amazing performance. When I watch Benise play and hear him, I see Truth pouring out of him. What a healer. This morning it came to me . . . seeing him is holy communion. What a way to bring forth the experience of Oneness.