Getting Answers from Psychics
In giving psychic readings over the years, I have found that some of the questions my clients have and the challenges they face don't have the answers they want or expect. There are answers, just not the ones they were hoping to receive. Here I talk about some of those situations.
Will This or That Happen?
Once in a while clients have this type of question:
The answer to all of these questions is: maybe.
The nature of reality is such that we, as humans, were created with free will. We get to choose. If you want to get back with your boyfriend, if you make some effort, maybe make some changes in yourself, then you probably will get together with him.
Will your husband get work? If he looks, and has the intention to get work, is qualified and the right person for the job, then he mostly likely will get work.
Will you get that job? Depending on your intention, and some other energetic factors, perhaps you will get the job.
We have free will. At any moment we can change our minds. At any moment other people can change their minds, and off everybody goes in a different direction than expected.
Periodically soul-level intentions are at play, so the likelihood of certain things happening is higher, but even then, most of the time, can be changed.
So, really, there is no reason to call a psychic just to get a yes or no on this type of a question.
However! If you are open, receptive, willing to grow in consciousness, a psychic, or me, in this instance, can provide a new context in which you can understand your situation. In having new understanding -- a shift in consciousness -- you can affect the situation in a different way. You may even open up to new directions that are far better for you than the ones you had been hoping for.
The boyfriend situation can turn into greater understanding about your dynamic, and if you are willing to see that, you can learn and grow and potentially create a great relationship.
The work situation can expand into a realization of your soul power and potential and your heart desire, where you suddenly see new, opportunities and off you go happily in a completely different direction.
If you are open to this type of expansion and growth and are willing to consider accepting more fulfillment, joy, love, and peace in your life, then a psychic reading with me can assist you in moving in that direction, and I would then encourage you to get a reading from me.
You Are Really Upset and Desperate for Answers
If you are in a highly emotional state, I would recommend that you wait on receiving a reading from me.
A psychic reading can offer deep solutions, but you have to be able to hear them. In a highly agitated state, most people have a hard time listening. At those times, what people most want is to feel better. A psychotherapist may be better able to help at those times.
My recommendation is to wait until you are calmer and able to receive deeper answers and are in a good position to implement changes.
Having said that, clients have come to see me very upset and have received from me the comfort and support they needed. At those times, I have mostly listened to them, rather than moving forward with a comprehensive reading.
These are general guidelines. However, when two people are brought together, regardless of how the session goes, everyone benefits in some way, though not necessarily as expected -- if they are willing and open to see the benefits.
Soul Evolution and Suffering
There are times when no one can offer an answer that will end suffering, not a psychic reader, not a psychotherapist. These are times when a person is going through a major and critical life transformation. What he/she is experiencing is necessary for soul growth.
Comfort can be obtained. Comfort from the understanding what exactly is going on. Comfort from from being understood. Comfort from human compassion. However, the fact remains that the person has to go through the process to grow.
In those situations, the person tends to look for A solution, THE solution, something that will answer and solve the whole thing and be done with it. At those times, there is no such thing. And I am so sorry to say that because from first-hand experience I know how brutal this can feel.
The best and easiest way to move through those ultra-difficult times is to be willing to change, be willing to accept and embrace the experience of deep, extensive and powerful transformation.
One book that offers an excellent explanation of this process and that offers comfort and excellent advice is Pema Chodron's book:
If you are in this phase of your life and you come to see me, I can clarify your situation for you your, set up a different context for viewing it, describe many aspects of it -- which all helps -- but I can't take the lessons away, I can't take the suffering away, can't take away your process, the lessons you need to learn. Though you will feel better knowing what is going on. You will feel better being understood.
I want to underscore the importance of this kind of process.This profound transformation is a privileged state! The grace of All That Is believes in you so much, values you so much as to be investing time in you, to shape you into a vehicle for the expression of truth and light, to bring you greater freedom and happiness. If you accept this, you will move through this process more easily and quickly.
Be Willing to Change
You may be in a difficult situation, but to change that situation, you have to be willing to change. If you are not willing to change, nothing will happen, until you are willing.
I would suggest that the minute you clearly see a challenge, ask yourself as to what you are doing to create this? And say to yourself: "I am wiling to change." All kinds of doors open, and solutions appear, when you say that you are willing to change.
In a psychic reading, being receptive to the possibility that something in you needs to change, that you need to see something differently, is the prerequisite to the situation changing.
It's All About Growth and Evolution
All of existence (on any level of reality), is about growth, unfoldment, evolution. Whatever challenges you face, they are about this expansion into greater being, expansion into soul truth, soul potential, soul power and, most of all, greater love, joy, fulfillment.
No one can escape this push to grow and evolve.
To understand and accept that everything is always evolving is to step into the truth of how things are and, thereby, make the journey easier and more fun.
change is unfoldment into greater divinity