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Just looked at my site in Internet Explorer. What a mess. And I'm not changing it.
People should use Google Chrome :-) What I've seen by giving psychic readings to couples is that the model in psychology of analyzing and fixing works to a point, but what's better is to have a totally different approach to relationship.
The approach is to think of relationship as something that you are building, something you are creating. Then bring every good thing to it that you can think of: humor, joy, love, creativity, play, trust, respect, honor, dignity . . . and keep brining it. This way you are in charge. You get to do something about your relationship. In light of this approach and these efforts, challenges work themselves out organically and non-confrontationally. Be the cause, rather than the effect of other people's determinations.
Radiate peace and love and trust in their power to create peace and love in others and throughout the dimensions. As I tune into the general population, what I see is the fear of letting go of all we have. Letting go of things, of a lifestyle . . . . The belief is if we let go of that, we will have nothing. We would be nothing.
Yet, the imperative is that we understand that we are more than our things and our lifestyle. We are called, in no uncertain terms, to know who we really are. You can know by choosing to be curious and walking that path. Or you can know by having everything taken away from you. It is a choice. We, in the West, have been too used to comfort, confident that its all about our comfort and our needs, forgetting the deeper, more important qualities of: courage, fearlessness, fortitude, selflessness, nobility and dignity in face of hardship. It is a time for courage, for selflessness, for fearlessness and, most of all, power of the Inner Light. The easiest way to navigate these changing times is to seek the New Light and choose to be guided by It.
The New Light is the path of truth, integrity, oneness, love, humility, compassion, dignity, nobility, selflessness. It is the finest, best in us. Our Divine Self in human form. Your highest path of truth is the New Light. When you choose to walk it, you walk into the New World and you help others to find their way. Be brave. Notice the fear. Walk by it. With all your heart choose the New Light. Then with all the determination walk that path until it is walking you. Smile. I see so many people scrambling to keep together a phase of their life that's simply passed. Let go!
We finish one phase of life. We take a break, during which we internally finish up old business and externally become available to what's next for us. Then we take steps in the new direction. Don't waste your time trying to re-create, re-build something that had its time. Let go! Get excited about the new. It will be something wonderfully unexpected. At this time in history, most of us will be going into something new and unexpected--better and more satisfying than anything we ever imagined. First we work hard to know what Reality is. Then we have definitions of what Reality is -- categories. And we think we know.
Then categories get in the way; they determine reality. And we're stuck, again. From where we stand as humans, we will never know the whole Truth. Best to be open to changing categories. One definition of Reality comes in. Then goes out as a larger definition comes in. And so it goes. |
Zorica Gojkovic, Ph.D.
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