I think most of us have gotten so busy and are feeling anxious and stressed all the time, to different degrees, that we simply no longer know what it's like to be relaxed and in a state of tremendous well being.
There is such a state of blissful well being that comes with delicious connectedness to our divine self. It's a condition of being in which your personality and your divine self are one. And act as one.
Out that deep, blissful state of oneness arises action. And that action in the world will be very different from what only your personality would do. It will bring peace and fulfillment.
Ultimately, that's the goal: beingness doing -- being a divine human, integrated -- spirit and matter.
If you start on that journey, you will have to leave behind many of the rules and mandates of society. It's not an easy choice, nor an easy journey. However, sooner or later, we all will take it.
If you're feeling frustrated, angry, overwhelmed, dissatisfied, that might be a sign you're far adrift from your true nature. It might be time to stop, rest, feel. Find out what's really important, what you really want, go for that, and let go the rest. It's a way to find peace.