I have many young women come to me because of relationship concerns. They'd like the great relationship, but so far have not succeeded in finding one.
Though there are logistics and other things involved, what I find as the cause of their lack of success is in how they are thinking about relationship. I think magazines and books instruct to make a list of the kind of person you're looking for, so that notion predominates. But from giving readings, I don't see that as a good approach.
The approach that's been shown to me in readings is to think in about the lifestyle that you want for yourself and then see the person who would fit that lifestyle. This will change in how you perceive people and allow you to find a person that's compatible and a good match.