In doing readings I've seen that who we think we are, what we think we can and can't do or become is minuscule relative to what is actually available to us.
The distance between what we think and what is possible is huge.
Each person has available to him/her huge resources, huge opportunities not only for growth, for evolution, but also for basic ease in daily living and fulfillment in all areas of life.
What stands in the way to accessing this knowledge is simply that we don't know this about ourselves, so we never look for it, never expect it and therefore cannot access it.
The great stance to take in life, regardless of the situation, is to KNOW better solutions and options exist than you can imagine. To open up to those and maintain a spaciousness until they come into existence.