What I see in psychic reading sessions with clients is that many of their difficulties could have been avoided if they'd only stopped and payed attention to the first signs of trouble.
It's funny how we all tend to discount and dismiss small signs of discomfort. In reality, these signs are very important and if you stop and listen, will save you a lot of grief down the line. What I see in readings is that the sign was there, the person ignored it. Then it came back stronger, they still ignored it. Pretty soon, it's a full-blown problem. And, at this point, the person not only can't dismiss it, it's the only thing they can think about. Save yourself grief, pay attention to the small discomforts, the sense that things aren't quite right, that feeling of being troubled that makes it hard to fall asleep. Face it head on!! You'd be surprised how easily these things are to resolve at their early stages. By the way, I am not talking about physical issues here, but emotional disturbances. I certainly have become a whole lot better of stopping the whole show and simply dealing with what's troubling me. There is less discord in general, and a great feeling of competency in being able to handle anything to comes my way. I have many young women come to me because of relationship concerns. They'd like the great relationship, but so far have not succeeded in finding one.
Though there are logistics and other things involved, what I find as the cause of their lack of success is in how they are thinking about relationship. I think magazines and books instruct to make a list of the kind of person you're looking for, so that notion predominates. But from giving readings, I don't see that as a good approach. The approach that's been shown to me in readings is to think in about the lifestyle that you want for yourself and then see the person who would fit that lifestyle. This will change in how you perceive people and allow you to find a person that's compatible and a good match. I have seen individuals in session moving forward into their highest truth, their soul expression, but recently had the first experience of where a family, as a unit, was seeking truth.
It was fascinating because they moved as a unit and each member and the playground, the territory of evolution, had to all be adjusted and all pieces moved forward in unison--all seeking light, the light being the homing device. It was truly wonderful to behold. This young family, I believe, is the first wave of what families will look like in the future. Feel so grateful to have witnessed this sacred evolution. I am just amazed at the sorts of things my clients are achieving! And the sorts of creativity that is opened up in session, the energy that comes through as guidance. It's expansion beyond what I ever thought was possible to transmit to another person.
And it's amazing how in this process I am expanded too in a different way. When I hold information/knowledge/energy in myself it's expanded to a certain degree. When it's shared in session the Higher Powers add to it and expand and enrich everything beyond what I could imagine. It's a terrific, wonderful feeling. Feel SO grateful, so blessed. If in pursuit of self/soul expression, if in your wake you will leave a lot of destruction, hurt people, abandoned commitments, abandoned responsibilities, abandoned children . . . you're not in pursuit of your soul expression, your in pursuit of ego desires, the cravings of your human personality.
If the path you're on forgets compassion, consideration, kindness, common courtesy, common decency . . . you're just out for self gratification; it truly is only about you, your small self, your ego self. As good and as brave as this endeavor may seem at the time, what is really happening is that you are abandoning yourself, falsely believing that if you do this thing, you will be happy. Happiness lies in the ability to fulfill commitments to others. In fulfilling those, you demonstrate the capability to fulfill commitments to yourself: you have fortitude. Whenever you are fulfilling the deeper qualities of compassion, integrity, responsibility, honoring commitments . . . you are in alignment with your soul self. When you are not, you are in alignment with your ego self, your human personality. Fulfillment of the wishes of the personality may feel good for a while, but does not lead to what you really want: true happiness, deep fulfillment, deep peace, meaning, joy. Expressing eternal qualities of love, joy, compassion . . . leads to that which you are really seeking--the experience of your eternal self with all the eternal qualities of peace, joy, love, meaning . . . .
From giving psychic readings I see that some of the hardest times in people's lives are times of transition. These times of transition are phases of life; one phase ends, another begins. The reason they are so difficult is because people are not aware that they are going through a transition. If they were, they would be a lot more tolerant and patient with themselves and the process.
During transition, everything's in upheaval. The old is done, it does not work; usually the person goes into an automatic life review: what have I done? Regrets, desires, unfulfilled dreams -- all emerge in amazing emotional intensity; it can be overwhelming, confusing and hard to take. It is during those times that people, wanting to be out of this pain, tend to make rash decisions, hurry it all up just to be done with it and onto secure ground again where everything makes sense again, and like can proceed, as before. And it's during one of those life transitions--around the age of 50--that people make the mistake of getting divorced. Of course, it may not always be a mistake, but often, from giving psychic readings, I see that it is. For the relationship, most of the time, it's a simple matter of realigning the relationship. Certain life commitments are over, like raising children, and each person finds herself in a new life--hence the relationship needs to be re-configured. It's a time when not only individually do the two people reevaluate their lives and formulate new directions, but as a couple they need to do the same. This is not so difficult to do if one knows what is going on and is willing to be present and patient with the process. What I see, as a possibility, for couples who do this re-configuring of their relationship is a whole new potential for the unfoldment of their relationship. They can enter into a new phase of their relationship, enjoy it in a different way and grow in a different way. It can be quite exciting and exhilarating. The main thing is to give it enough time. This is a process. First there is the turbulence of self evaluation, the the relationship reevaluation. The somewhere about there, the dust starts to settle and the form of the new relationship starts to emerge. In our society where everything is a microwave event, we expect the same for even our relationships, and it simply does not work that way. Forbearance and fortitude are great attributes supporting soul evolution and securing the most fulfillment in life. So, if you're at that age and you're wondering, look at it from this perspective, you'll be surprised the treasures that can await you.
I've written about this before, but I continue to feel gratitude, continue to feel the humbling effect--for which I am really grateful--of being the recipient of people's trust. Could there be a greater honor?
Of all the gifts people can give me, TRUST is the most incredible gift.
To have a person's trust is to have the opening to their divinity. To share the divine in this body is the ultimate earth experience. I have the trust of many people and feel supremely blessed. |
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